A Psychological Explanation for Poor Online Communication
Posted in web 2.0 on November 20th, 2007 by Matthew – Comments OffThere’s an interest article on TechCrunch concerning the psychological reasons why people can sometimes become more aggressive and sometimes downright nasty when communicating online.
Given that TechCrunch is a blog, the article mostly deals with online communication in the form of blog posting and comments on blog posts, but has some interesting comments from a psychologist on the ways online communication (including email and IM) can be misinterpreted by recipients. Social psychologist Nicholas Epley states that online communication “’has the feel of informality – we just fire something off’, even though we probably ought to treat it with the same care as a written letter.”
Instant Messenger (IM) has long since broken beyond the boundaries of the tweener social circuit. The increased use of Instant Messenger in the business world opens us all up to aggressive behavior as well as more opportunities for miscommunication. Before you fire off that snarky reply to a co-worker using Skype, remember that you WILL have to see him/her and work closely with that person in the not too distant future.
Sometimes it just pays to count to 10, and go talk to the person, avoiding email and IM entirely. Especially if you feel that you are on the receiving end of some aggressive forms of communication.


